Showing posts with label memoir. Show all posts
Showing posts with label memoir. Show all posts

Monday, April 8, 2013

"A Spoonful of Sugar" by Brenda Ashford Review/Giveaway (ends 4/15) U.S./Canada

To follow the entire tour and find out more information, read the spotlight post here.


A Spoonful of Sugar: A Nanny's StoryA Spoonful of Sugar: A Nanny's Story by Brenda Ashford
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

I honestly don't know where to begin.  A book written by a 92-year-old woman who is still going strong?  And she is a part of an online blog tour?  And her book is available in e-book?  All of these things are already amazing.  And that was even before I began the book.  I had a sense that this would be a great book, but I had no idea how inspiring and amazing it would be!

This memoir is an unbelievable book that chronicles Brenda's 60-some years of being a British nanny. I have to admit that I cannot imagine doing these things at my age of almost 39, but to still be taking care of babies at the age of 80?  Good grief!  The woman is unbelievable.  And she tells her story with honesty, humor, and heart.

I found many gems in this story that I wasn't expecting.  Child-rearing tips, practical wisdom, recipes, and even a few history lessons.  Not much romance, but there is some to satisfy the romance-lovers amongst us.  I won't spoil any of that for you.  Brenda's memory is as sharp as a whip, and it makes me wish I had had her as a nanny when I was growing up.  It even made me realize that I was probably sorely lacking in some of my mothering skills since I have tended to sometimes take the "easy" way out.  But I'm not going to beat myself up over that.

In short, this is a book that all women should read.  I think everyone could take something from it.  There are no bedroom scenes, and while anatomy is discussed, it is necessary--you'll understand.  It is not inappropriate.  As to profanity, I would not really call anything in the book "profanity."  I call this clean.

I was sent a copy of this book in exchange for my honest review.  I was not financially compensated, and all opinions are 100 percent mine.


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Saturday, December 22, 2012

Tribute Books: "Dianna's Way" by John Catenacci Book Review


Dianna is a young woman in her late 20’s when she meets John, a man in his late 40's. They fall in love and marry. A central feature of their life plan is to have one child to fulfill her fervent lifelong dream of being a mother.

Not to be.

Not long into their marriage, Dianna discovers she has an aggressive form of breast cancer.

Hand in hand, they begin a 17 year spiritual journey into the nature of love and healing. Along the way, she discovers and fulfills her life purpose and, in the process, takes John by the hand, gently helping him to reveal, then fulfill, his own.

In the beginning, John, being much older, thought he would be her teacher but gradually discovers in the most important dimensions of life quite the opposite is true. With Dianna’s guidance, he ultimately discovers we are all teachers, we are all students and we are all one.

Theirs is a story of courage, determination and a lightness of being, as they descend into the deepest valleys of crushing disappointment, pain and suffering only to rise again to ever higher peaks of appreciation, gratitude and love. Throughout it all, their journey is laced with light and laughter.

Even today, after her passing, they continue their relationship, piercing the Illusion that veils this reality, exploring its limits while continuing a spiritual journey without end.

My rating: 3 of 5 stars
It is so tough when I review books that have their ups and downs.  This is a memoir, and it celebrates the life of a remarkable young woman through the eyes of a man who loved her so unconditionally.  Her struggle against cancer--more than once, I might add--is absolutely inspiring.  I honestly don't think I could have ever done all that she did, but I can only hope that I would face cancer as she did.  She is a testament to the strength of womankind.

I was touched by her husband's care for her during this time.  He did what I believe very few men would have done, and it must mean a lot to get those words down on paper.  The book definitely read like a memoir and often has quite raw emotion.  I was not terribly offended by the profanity--it wasn't too bad.  And although the issue of sex was touched upon, I am so grateful we did not go into their bedroom for those kinds of scenes!

My reasons for marking the book down just slightly is twofold.  I will admit that I found my interest waning from time to time throughout the book.  I didn't find myself terribly immersed in the writing style of the author, but that is not his fault. It is only a personal preference of mine.

My biggest issue lies in the astrology, religion, and psychic references.  I know that pointing these things out should not affect my view of the book, but the author did make these an integral part of the story--in fact, these ideas dominate the last section of the book.  I didn't see the point of these sections, and I grew tired of the syncretist ideas put forth in the book. I know this is merely a personal preference of mine, but this did impede my enjoyment of the book.  If this section and these references had been left out, I do believe that I would have enjoyed the book more.  However, when it comes to a cancer story told with heart, this is definitely a book I can recommend.

I was sent a copy of this book in exchange for my honest review.  I was not financially compensated, and all opinions are 100 percent mine.



John Catenacci's Bio: 
After spending his youth doing cement construction work while getting his education, John Catenacci earned a Bachelor’s degree in chemical engineering. He went on to work on the Apollo 11 Project as a member of the USAF in California, then  as an engineer for the Dow Chemical Company in Midland, MI, doing both process research as well as designing and building chemical plants.

Mid-career he became interested in group dynamics, leading to another 20-year career in team building that took him across the U.S., Canada, Europe and Saudi Arabia.

With a sprinkling of published short stories and articles in small magazines along the way, his abiding passion has always been writing, something now coming to fruition in this, his first book.

Price: $16.95
Format: paperback
Pages: 365
Publisher: Spiritdogtalking
Release: December 14, 2012

Wednesday, November 7, 2012

Charisma Media Book Tours: "Ruby's World" by Karen Baldwin Review


Book Title: Ruby’s World
Author: Karen Baldwin
Genre: Non-Fiction

Synopsis:
Karen Baldwin's masterful memoir reads like a suspense thriller as this resolute American woman of "a certain age" journeys alone to South Africa to teach Zulu children. There she encounters a stunning resistance to change from those who invited her. Baldwin's writing is candid, taut and relentless, as waves of cultural tension build to an unforeseen crisis that tests her courage and strength. -Phaedra Greenwood, Award Winning Journalist Karen Baldwin, through raw, honest, and vibrant writing, shares her journey to teach children in South Africa. Her good intentions are met by strong traditions and a real Africa-not an illusion or romanticized world-where nothing is wasted and there is little personal space. Baldwin's journey reveals the similarities in Zulu and American families' joys, pain, deception and love. -Dr. Andrea M. Heckman, PhD, Cultural Anthropologist, University of New Mexico An extraordinary story, beautifully told. Baldwin's account of her adventure in Africa is honest, moving, frequently funny, sometimes startling, and always compelling. This is a journey of faith, and it carries the reader along every twist and turn in that journey with remarkable clarity and grace. -Sean Murphy, Author, The Time of New Weather

Note:  I am sorry this is posted a little later than I wanted to post.  When I truly enjoy a book, I find that I read slower rather than faster!

My rating: 5 of 5 stars
What can you say about a memoir that touches you so deeply that you can't stop thinking about it?  Such is this memoir by Karen Baldwin.  Before reading this book, I knew very little about modern-day South Africa. I used to work with a teacher who came out of the apartheid, but of course, that is all in the past, right?  I invite you to read the book to find out!

Kudos to the author for capturing the Zulu people and their culture so well.  I kept saying that she had to take copious notes in order to share so much detail.  I have been on a missions trip to the country of Yemen, but I was in a "Western compound" so culture shock was no big deal. I was horrified and mesmerized as I read this book that is raw with emotion and real life.

I will warn you.  There are adult topics and some profanity (but not much).  There are religious issues that will probably shock you and may even offend you.  But you cannot get away from this fact--it is real.  If you want to know how things really are in South Africa (or at least how they were back in 2008--I honestly doubt it has changed much)from an outsider's eyewitness viewpoint, this is the book for you.

As another side note, I have to say that reading this book when I did was perfect timing.  I completed it the day after the 2012 presidential election was decided.  I can't tell you how often I found myself so grateful to be an American.  We may not have a perfect country, but we have worked on our democracy for over 200 years, and I wouldn't wish to build my life anywhere else!

I was sent a copy of this book in exchange for my honest review.  I was not financially compensated in any way, and all opinions are 100 percent mine. 




Some other info:

The author and global volunteer Karen Baldwin recently was appointed the Ambassador for the Rural Women’s Movement of South Africa working to obtain basic human rights for the women and children of South Africa. She’ll be speaking to the United Nations Commission hearings on the Status of Women with Sizani Ngubane, the executive director and founder of RWM early next year. Karen was recently interviewed by NBC affiliate, KOB in Albuquerque, NM. Airing September 18 - Link: http://www.kob.com/article/stories/S2767979.shtml?cat=11121
Before NM, Karen was in San Francisco on a book tour and was on the CBS Affiliate Bay Sunday: http://youtu.be/nQI3bflfaNY
Karen is a breast cancer and heart attack survivor (October Breast Cancer Awareness Month). These are the two deadliest killers of women. Karen took her surviving as a sign to help women and children prompting her trip to Africa. Her story is inspirational. We have video of her time in Africa with the children and traditions of the Zulu that we can include as links on the blog post.
Author’s Encounter with Secretive Zulu Traditions –
When Dreams Turn into Nightmares
What started as a dream and a spiritual calling for Karen Baldwin, quickly turned into a nightmare in the Zulu region of South Africa as the obscure traditions of the Zulu tribal chiefs and witch doctors threatened her survival and prompted her expulsion from the dark continent of Africa. Ruby’s World, My Journey with the Zulu tells that story. Baldwin says, “I didn’t choose Africa. Africa chose me,” says Baldwin, author of Ruby’s World, My Journey with the Zulu. “It was an experience that changed my life.”
We would love for you to join with either a Book Review, a Author Q&A or a article for your blog. You would receive a copy of the book (eBook or hard copy).
About:
Ruby’s World: My Journey with the Zulu
Breast cancer and heart attack survivor Karen Baldwin searched for a way to give back targeting women and children. What began as a humanitarian quest ended suddenly with a hair-raising escape for her life. What started as a dream and a spiritual calling for Baldwin, quickly turned into a nightmare in the Zulu region of South Africa as the obscure traditions of the Zulu tribal chiefs and witch doctors threatened her survival and prompted her expulsion from the dark continent of Africa.
Now Baldwin’s good intentions continue to move her forward. She has written a book about her journey with the Zulu and altered the course of her life to continue to find ways to help the Zulu women and children working with the non-profit Rural Women’s Movement of South Africa.
Readers of Ruby’s World – My Journey with the Zulu demanded answers!
In Unlocking the Dream, Karen Baldwin shares her intimate dream of a one-breasted heroine that drives her through an intense journey of healing and self-determination. Dreams nurture and guide our souls’ contracts. Join Karen Baldwin’s compelling adventure and decide for yourself: Has she unlocked the key elements of her dreams, or is she still on the journey?
News Release:
New Mexico Author Karen Baldwin Named Ambassador
For Rural Women’s Movement of South Africa
Karen Baldwin, author of Ruby’s World – My Journey with the Zulu, believes in global volunteerism.
Now she helps bring awareness of non-profit efforts toward equality for African women.
A prominent New Mexico author becomes the first Ambassador for the Rural Women’s Movement of South Africa. Founder and Executive Director for the Rural Women’s Movement of South Africa, Sizani Ngubane, chose author Karen Baldwin as the first Ambassador to the U.S. representing the non-profit because of Baldwin’s passion to help the women and children. Ngubane is known as an indefatigable campaigner for women’s and children’s human rights in South Africa. She sits on the UN Commission on the Status of Women and has addressedthe UN regarding the UN Millennium Development Goals. Joining Ngubane in that fight, Baldwin, whose book is a memoir of her journey to rural South Africa teaching children English, wants to make a difference. Baldwin also will attend the UN Commission on the Status of Women hearing in the Spring 2013 and together with Ngubane will present a workshop on RMW’s work.
Baldwin knows firsthand the struggles women face in South Africa. She witnessed many of the issues Ngubane battles on a daily basis. There is the imbalance of power for women. If a woman is not married, she holds no rights to property, a job, or freedom.
“I was searching for purpose after surviving a heart attack and breast cancer,” says 57-year-old Karen Baldwin. “I was invited to be the first white teacher in a rural Zulu elementary school. Naïve, I set off from San Francisco alone for South Africa,” Baldwin explains. “At first I was welcomed in my efforts, but then threatened with my life because, in part, I stood against the cruelty that Ngubane is working to end. Since returning home from South Africa, I have been searching for a non-profit to give my support.”
About RWM
The Rural Women’s Movement of KwaZulu-Natal was chosen as a finalist in the 2010 Drivers of Change awards by the Southern Africa Trust. The criteria in the annual competition is that entrants must demonstrate their commitment to sustained development within communities to ensure a better future for all South Africans.
Nearly 70 years ago, an elderly South African man dictated his will to his youngest child, informing her that she would equally share in the division of his property. That little girl grew up to become the mother of Sizani Ngubane of the Rural Women’s Movement in KwaZulu-Natal Province, South Africa. Today, Ms. Ngubane works to educate women with HIV/AIDS of their inheritance rights in a country where women are being disenfranchised because of the illness.
RWM serves over 50,000 women and 2,000 orphans in rural South Africa. They are part of a 21 organization alliance that works toward preserving constitutional rights for rural citizens.
Their primary focus is to advocate for women's independent land housing, inheritance, and property rights. They also provide training and strategic assistance for the HIV/AIDS crisis.

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Thursday, October 18, 2012

"Tears Water the Seeds of Hope" by Kim Tews Blog Tour/Review/Giveaway (Ends 10/31) U.S./Canada



Tears Water the Seeds of Hope by Kim Tews,
September 10, 2012.
240 pages.
Published by CrossHouse.

Tears Water the Seeds of Hope is the inspiring true story of a Midwest husband and wife that become disenchanted with the relentless pursuit of the American Dream and embark on a journey that spans six countries and redefines their values and lives. The story begins in a small town in Wisconsin and weaves its way through South and Central America as the couple gathers an army of supporters and establishes an organization to save the lives of children in the end stages of starvation in eastern Guatemala.




Chapter 1 - Wrecked for Life

The setting sun painted a backdrop of cotton candy pink clouds over the roadside bar and grill where we would soon hear our favorite acoustic guitar duo sing Jimmy Buffet songs. It was an idyllic Wisconsin summer night late in June of 2005. Under normal circumstances, I would have enjoyed the warm breeze and the glow of the festive colored tiki lights on the outdoor deck with the sense of carefree recreation that midwestern families enjoy when school is out and the days are longer. Randy shook his head, smiling as our two daughters took turns throwing harmless jabs at one another, each laughing hysterically at her own jokes. I felt as if I were watching the scene from a distance, fighting back tears as my mind returned to the children I had seen two days earlier in a squalid hospital in drought and famine-stricken eastern Guatemala—a scene that would change me forever and wreck me once and for all for the relentless pursuit of the American Dream. I was haunted by the forlorn faces of two children whose hopeless situation had laid the framework for the rest of my life.

The severely starved two-year-old boy was scarcely more than skin and bones. Hair was a luxury his body could not afford, as the nutrients available to him were barely enough to keep his vital organs functioning. His face was sunken and pale, the outline of his ribs and spine clearly visible through his thin layer of skin. He had been carried by his barefooted ten-year-old sister from El Volcancito, their remote mountain village several miles away, into the small town of Jocotan, in hopes that his life could be saved. The mother of the children was bedridden with a debilitating illness for which she could not afford treatment. My heart broke as much for the boy, barely hanging on and suffering miserably, as for the young girl, exhausted and saddled with the crushing responsibility of keeping her baby brother alive.

A frail little girl sat weeping on a tattered bench at the entrance to the facility, her body emaciated and her abdomen severely bloated, revealing the presence of parasites within her weak, trembling frame. She had been brought to the hospital for nutritional rehabilitation, and because she was four years old, and her mother had two smaller children to care for at home, she had been left alone. Lidia could not have understood why she had been left behind by her family in this unfamiliar place. She had been sitting on the bench since early morning waiting for them to return. In her hand she clutched what was probably her only toy, a comfort and reminder of home. The lump in my throat returned each time I recalled opening her tiny hand to find that she held a black plastic vulture.

Randy and I were married in May of 1993. During our early years together, we were blessed with two beautiful daughters and were pursuing careers in real estate, climbing the ranks among our colleagues in terms of sales volume. We purchased an enormous house on four acres, and although it was only four years old, we completely remodeled it to suit our tastes. With luxury vehicles and an ever-increasing income, we were living the American Dream. There was much to be thankful for, but something was missing.

Randy and I had both grown up near Madison, Wisconsin in middle class families, Randy’s Methodist and mine Catholic. We had attended Sunday services and believed in an all-powerful God, but faith and religion were not playing a major role in our adult lives. Having agreed as newlyweds to raise our family in faith, we dutifully attended services at a congregation near our home for seven years. But we eventually felt that we needed a change and in spring of 2000, we set out in search of a new church home. With no predetermined denomination in mind, we experienced a variety of church cultures, some too formal, some too weird, others seemingly insincere. We eventually stumbled across an Evangelical Free church on the west side of Madison, near our home in the suburb of Verona. I was surprised to find that instead of an organ and a choir, this church had a band that played upbeat contemporary Christian music on keyboards, guitars and drums. The young pastor spoke with passion, bringing the Bible to life by applying scripture to issues faced by the generations of the twenty-first century. It was at this church that our faith came alive.

Our new understanding of the gift of salvation through Jesus Christ and the resulting sense of love and gratitude we felt toward God, inevitably began to pose problems for us. We were embarrassed to invite our new Christian friends to our supersized home, and conflicts began to surface in our hearts about how our time and money were being spent. One of the many bedrooms in our home had been turned into my personal closet and was loaded with clothing and shoes, most of which I did not need. I had become so busy in my career as a Realtor that I began to feel like a gerbil on a wheel. My twelve-hour workdays did not leave room for the peace and joy I had heard should come with our newly authenticated Christian faith. One frantically busy day I decided to return phone calls while waiting in line for lunch at the McDonald’s drive through. When a voice came over the speaker saying, “Can I help you?”

I was so preoccupied that I mistook it for a phone call and said, “Hello, this is Kim Tews with the Tews Team Realtors”.

During the awkward silence that followed the kid must have been thinking, “Yeah, who cares? What do you want for lunch?”

That night I arrived home from work late in the evening to find our three-year-old daughter asleep on the couch clinging to a shirt I had worn the day before. When I asked Randy about the shirt he explained, “She said it smells like you, and she misses you.”

It was time for a change.

My rating: 5 of 5 stars
Are you so caught up in your everyday life that you forget about all the other people in this world who are worse off than you?  Do you wonder how one person can even make a difference in this world of suffering?  Does your heart break for the children all over the world who went to bed last night without eating, or are you more concerned with keeping your finances in order?  I don't usually say something like this, but I believe everyone should read this memoir--you won't be sorry!  My heart was touched, and I found myself saying over and  over again, "And I complain??"  I have absolutely nothing to complain about.  I was horrified and saddened by stories.  I had no idea how horrible things were just south of the U.S.

Kim Tews came to true faith in Christ as an adult, and she shares her faith so effortlessly in this wonderful book.  She speaks about the miracles she saw, and she even deals with the issue of why God allows suffering in this world.  Her impact on this world is unbelievable, and I think if God allows us to request who has a mansion next door to me in heaven, I want it to be hers!  She is humble, and she continues to serve God even when everything seems against her.  She never comes across "preachy" in this book, and it is clear that she saw God change people in Guatamala amongst other places.  My faith has been encouraged, and this is a book that I want to tell everyone about!  I found myself in tears more than once, and there were times I even had to stop to get control of my emotions.  But it was so worth it!

I was sent a copy of this book in exchange for my honest review.  I was not financially compensated, and all opinions are 100 percent mine.


About This Author
Kim Tews was raised in Madison, Wisconsin and attended the University of Wisconsin-Madison, majoring in Economics. She and husband, Randy, pursued careers in real estate before beginning mission work together in Ecuador, South America in 2001. In 2005 they established the 501 (c) 3 non-profit Outreach for World Hope to save the lives of starving children in eastern Guatemala. The couple lives in Verona, Wisconsin with their three children, traveling back and forth to Guatemala frequently to facilitate the ongoing programs of Outreach for World Hope.




Link to Outreach For World Hope (Author’s webpage): http://outreachforworldhope.org/





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Saturday, October 6, 2012

"Felice's Worlds" by Henry Massie Book Review


FIRST SHE ESCAPED THE HOLOCAUST AND THE POVERTY OF THE SHTETL. AFTER THAT, SHE MOVED IN MANY WORLDS. AND IN EVERY ONE SHE MADE HER MARK.
Felice Massie was a student in France, caught up in the horrors of Naziism when she was 20 years old.  Cut off by the war from her family living in a small village in Poland, she shifted from one country to another attempting to find a home for herself and a means to rescue her parents, brother and sister.  As the Holocaust descended on her shtetl, she arrived penniless in America.  Over time she raised a family and amassed one of foremost collections of American modern art.  Her boldness and resilience became a beacon of hope and inspiration for others.
Particulars of the Book :
Publisher: booksBnimble
Publication Date: Feb, 2012

I posted a spotlight for this book some time ago, and I have finally reviewed it!

My rating: 4 of 5 stars
First of all, this is a monumental books that truly covers decades of some of the most important in history.  I learned more than I can ever remember from reading this account, and I was pleased to learn that the book is truly a memoir rather than a fictionalized account.  It begins in WWI in Poland and finishes in about the year 2007.  It follows one Jewish woman who survived against all odds, and it truly captured the pathos of a survivor.

Due to the massive amount of material covered in this book, I would have preferred for this book to be split in two.  The length of the book alone may turn some readers off.  All I can say is that it is worth the read, and just be sure that you take your time so you can fully digest the history you are reading.

I also felt that sometimes the book spent too much time giving a history lesson and not enough time telling the reader about the characters.  I grew tired of the extended flashbacks in the book, and I would have preferred the book to discuss a certain period of time in the characters' lives in one section of the book rather than several.  I sometimes grew weary of jumping back and forth between the 1930's, the 1940's and the 2000's all within one chapter.  This is just a personal preference of mine and did not ruin the overall story for me.

I was pleased that there were no sexual encounters (there were some veiled references to such), and profanity was virtually nonexistent.  I always feel better about recommending books like this to others, and so I can certainly say this is clean.  There is no overly descriptive violence either.

The author has truly captured the essence of Felice's life, and I believe the reader will be able to connect with her as I did.  If you approach this as a heavy, historical read that will give you true insight into modern Jewish history, I believe you will really enjoy this.  This is not light reading, but it is worthwhile reading.

I was sent a copy of this book in exchange for my honest review.  I was not financially compensated, and all opinions are 100 percent mine.


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